**We all met in the lobby and had a lightening round of get-to-know-you. Here I am with my new friend Amy and my sister in law Emily**
There is something really great about being in a room full of other moms who are just like me. Wanting to be better to our kids. Hoping we are raising them right. Helping them grow. As we all know, instruction manuals are not handed out in the delivery room. We just hope that God gives us the strength and knowledge to be good moms.
Believe me when I say that I took copious notes. The theme for this particular retreat was ORGANIZATION. I am somewhat organized. I have my own system of things to do, papers to be filed, tasks to complete, forms to fill out/submit, school papers .... OK, who am I kidding. I am no April Perry when it comes to organization. I am not kidding, this woman needs to write a book on how to organize. I got so much out of her session and have begun to organize and create my system based off of hers. Haven't you noticed my lack of posting as of late? Organizing takes time!
**We had table topics at our Friday night dinner as well as our lunch on Saturday. So much fun to get to know my new friends better and to learn from them.**
In addition to a brilliant session on organizing, Saren Eyre Loosli focused her session on Traditions. Establishing simple daily traditions as well as big yearly traditions are key to creating lasting family relations. Several suggestions and comments were shared. It was so great to hear how other moms are creating lasting memories and deepening their family relationships with some really simple traditions. My husband and I have started a few of our own, however, after participating in this session, and with the help of my new mom friends, I have thought of a few more simple traditions that I hope will create meaningful relationships.
My kids are young right now, and this retreat was great timing. Beginning traditions when they are young is the best time to start.
As much as I loved the topic of traditions and the organization session my absolute favorite session was all about LOVE LANGUAGES. This discussion was presented by the lovely Susan. I had heard about the 5 Love Languages before but had never really given it much thought. Oh Man! This has been the missing puzzle piece. If you have kids, or are married, or have friends - OK, so you are all included. This is a must!!
**The lovely Susan talking about the 5 Love Languages and how it has helped her family.**
Ina nutshell, there are 5 Love Languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. We all have a strong language, or maybe 2 strong languages. I speak the language of Quality Time. So does one of my sons - we understand each other. It was during this session I had an "Ah-Ha" moment. My other son is NOT a Quality Time person. We do not speak the same language. Which explains why he is always a difficult child. No, scratch that, he is not a difficult at all, he just speaks a different language than I do. I NOW know his love language and I am learning to adjust in order to understand him more. It has been 2 weeks since I attended this retreat and I have been very conscious in coming to my son in his Love Language and I can already see a huge change in both my son and myself.
Talk about an awakening! Now that I have gotten a handle on the organization part (almost!), I need to read the 5 Love Languages book. Oh, and if you are interested you can take the quick version of the QUIZ to find out your love language. Give it to your significant other, your kids, your friends ....
**Here is our group of beautiful, smart, and lovely moms**
April Perry, co-founder of the Power of Moms organization, wrote a detailed blog post HERE.
Erin, another fabulous mom from the retreat blogged about it HERE.